Finally! The secret Of
TRUE Sexual magnetism!
That "something" that so much money is spent trying to re-create!!!
 

Why A Different Kind of Seduction?!

A very attractive Free Lance Journalist approached me for an interview on my work as a Dating Coach, mid- interview I happened to mention that I was writing a book.  She asked me what it was about, and I told her "Seducing the opposite sex".

She wrinkled her nose. "Oh," she said; "I don't think I could ever seduce anyone and I certainly don't want to be seduced.  Frankly, the word "seduction" puts me off".

That wasn't the first time I'd heard this. In fact, most consciously evolving men and women these days seem to feel this way.

I asked her, what puts her off and she said "I guess, maybe, the scheming and plotting, the trying so hard to impress, the rejection and stuff.  It seems that if I do not push, control, manipulate, lie, trick or try so hard to impress men, they will just ignore me, loose interest, cheat with someone else or take me for granted."

It Doesn’t Have To Be That Way!

 

I paused for a moment, then asked her "What if you didn't have to push, scheme, plot, lie, try so hard to impress and do all the tricks and stuff, what if seduction didn't involve all that, would you do it?" She frowned in thought. "I don't know.  I am so tired of meeting men and feeling like I have to play dirty little games to “win”. I don’t like manipulation and playing mind games. I tried that, and it felt so wrong to me all the way down to the core.  Now I just want to be me.  I want to be

loved, respected, protected, admired, pursued and turned on.  And I want someone who wants the same things." "What if you could have all those things and be able to give the man you're attracted to all those things", I replied.  "What if you could just be you, and genuinely be the challenge and the prize at the same time, would you be comfortable with the idea of seducing someone?" "May be," she answered promptly. "So, maybe it isn't that you could never seduce anyone," I suggested, "May be you just don't feel comfortable with insincere scheming and plotting; the silly game-playing and all those stupid rules about when you're supposed to call."  "Are you?" She fired back. "Hell, NO!" I said. "Nothing that's based on manipulation can ever feel right, nothing truly meaningful happens if forced.  But I certainly don't mind engaging someone in experiences of mutual well-being with my "take me…if you dare" playful energy.   His inspiration to participate will come from the pleasure he gets from the challenge for him to step up and become more of himself and do more than he’d dared to do before. This, to me, is what the Art Of Seduction -- it's purest form -- is all about. A shifting, changing, constantly fluctuating in  dance that cannot be forced, cannot be restricted by some arbitrary and rigid rules of the right and wrong way. It is about each following his or her own inner guide and using what comes naturally to create intense attraction.  Any misrepresentation of myself or manipulation of the situation to my favour may cause both of us to be suspicious of the attraction that develops. "When you put it like that, I wouldn't mind seducing the right man or being seduced for that matter" she said excitedly. "But I'd have to know what I am doing and really believe in myself?" "Then I will have to send you a complimentary copy of my book!" "Please, do." She winked and laughed. So what Are the powerful secrets that you are about to learn that could change your relationships and the rest of your life? Study after study on sexual attraction and sexual magnetism show that of us -- men and women -- want to be with someone who is really relaxed, self-assured, selfless, fun, playful, engaging vibrant, unique and whose total presence is intoxicating; someone who is sexually energetic and sexually responsiveness -- who can take us with confidence and passion, and is willing, able and longing to surrender to our loving and desires in the most intense way. But to attract such a man or woman, you must be relaxed, unafraid, sexually confident and fascinating -- all at the same time! If all this sounds impossible for you, let me assure you that it is not.  It's not just possible, it's so easy when you start using your natural sexual instincts instead of conforming to other people's ideas of who you should be -- to the extent that sometimes you don't even know who you really are and what you can do by yourself. Like many others, you might think that you need to know some kind of technique or routine to become a great seducer/seductress, but what you don't know is that techniques, tricks or gimmicks have a way of ruining the NATURAL MAGIC within. Instead of using nature's power -- the power of innate sexual instincts -- many techniques, tricks or gimmicks go against nature's power.  They teach and train you to behave disingenuously and unnaturally. What happens? While the opposite sex may be impressed with your attempts to stand tall, flirt, smile and make eye contact or talk the talk of a seducer they are not deeply moved -- not enough to want to seduce you right back!   Why not?   Because the most important “INGREDIENT" -- genuine comfort, enjoyment and celebration of SEXUAL BE-INGNESS is missing.  You end up feeling even more rejected and disapproved of, which in turn makes you behave even more unnaturally and disingenuously.  Completely lost and distanced from your natural effectiveness, you plunge into depression or become angry at the opposite sex.  It feels like you have to try so hard -- and are still invisible to the opposite sex or you try too hard only to be used and spat out like a tasteless piece of meat. You've got to change the dynamics...  change the game...  STOP trying to seduce and become THE SEDUCTION instead! When you are being seductive just from your sexual presence, you feel relaxed, unafraid and have loads of spare mental, emotional and physical capacity to smile generously, make jokes and tease, touch and generally be a fascinating person to be around. And when you are operating at this level of SEXUAL CONFIDENCE, you do not have to do anything to try to appear sexually appealing, persuade or manipulative, your POWERFUL SEXUAL PRESENCE which will be effortlessly and abundantly there day and night, in and out of the bedroom, and whether you’re with people and or alone -- and whether you're 'technically" good looking or not will do the seduction for you. Seduction stops a technique, routine, an act, a performance... and instead becomes one flow of infinite possibilities. Finally.  I've waited for someone who really knows what seduction is all about to write a book.  I can remember only a few weeks back, seeing an attractive woman and thinking to myself: "She'd probably never feel attraction toward me because I'm not tall enough, funny enough, muscular enough…and so on." I tried all the tactics, and pickup lines for winning attractive women over but generated absolutely zero attraction. Once I started doing things the way I was comfortable doing them, trusted my own instincts, allowed my seductiveness to flow naturally and established myself as the PRIZE in the interaction, I started interacting with women with so much ease that surprised even me. Don't close yourself off from such an important Revolutionizing discovery that will change your life in the most positive way and that will allow you to finally take command of how women treat you.  Christine is indeed an incredible woman with a lot of wisdom to share. -- Scooter, USA   Rather trying to "hard sell" yourself, seduction becomes a matter of always reflecting a healthy (the key word here is "healthy") highly charged sexual state that inspires men and women to, right there-as-it-is-happening open up to their own instincts, sensations, thoughts, emotions and desires.   They get their own sense of what it means to be DESIRABLE because they can say and do things they have never said or done (or even thought were capable of) with someone else.  They feel attractive, fun, and desirable and this consequently makes you ATTRACTIVE to them and makes them behave in a FUN and DESIRABLE manner when with you.   The mutual emotional openness, readiness and sharing of experience and feelings (enjoyment and excitement), makes both of you feel satisfied that you are having the experience you want.   The attraction happens quickly, effortlessly, and permanently because the other person acts upon him or herself -- independently, happily and voluntarily   When men and women experience a level of feeling and connectedness with themselves that they might miss in their daily lives, they operate proactively and cooperatively.   Here’s where the magic starts to really take hold.   There is no need to try to disable or break down the other person's resistance and/or his or her willingness to employ that resistance because there is no resistance in the first place!!!!!   Their internally motivated reason gives them an exciting sense of purpose. This gives them an energy that may have previously lacked. Because they are thinking and feeling “all sorts of cool things”, they become co-creators of the seduction process.   Why persuade them, beg them, manipulate them or force them to want to be with you when they can persuade themselves happily and willingly?     You can say or do just about anything -- No matter what you do -- whether it is a glance, a simple "hello" or "accidental" touch on the shoulder or voice on the phone or words on a screen -- and it will work...WHY?   Because it stimulates their imagination, excites their curiosity, and holds their minds and emotions in the unfolding process of seduction.  No matter what you do -- whether it is a glance, a simple "hello" or "accidental" touch on the shoulder or voice on the phone or words on a screen, Poised between the yet unrealized pleasure and a fait accompli, he or she will start to self-seduce: “What does this mean?” “What is his or her next move?” “How will I feel?” “Will I enjoy it?” “What is my next move?” “How will he/she feel?” “Will he/she enjoy it?”   Because you're effortlessly producing those wonderful chain reactions, you never feel any need to ACT on any preconceived ideas, tricks, techniques or routines. All you do is offer something more... greater... unknown.  And the options stretch as far as your imagination.   Having had a good and complete experience, he/she can later on -- on his or her own -- pick up the seduction where his or her own mind and emotions left it off, and have another experience with it -- "Oh My God, I can't believe he/she said this/did that... and I can't believe I said this/did that... next time if he/she does this/that...  I'll do this/that!" And you're not even there trying to seduce him or her!   Nothing beats the feeling of knowing that women are responding to you and you are not even doing anything to impress them.  I am a good-looking guy and women are attracted to me but it seems like I always tried too hard to impress them and that became my main focus when I meet a woman I really like.  Many times I ended up in a ditch, going the wrong way or simply unable to read the signals women were sending me.  Now I just relax and let them enjoy me.  I don't try to impress them or seek their approval and don't care much about those who think I should impress them.  This has allowed me to find some incredible lovers and ignore some terrible ones! Some days it feels like I'm walking round with my eyes in my heart not my head. All those little things that guys have been told never mattered to women actually do. Women can tell the difference between a guy who "gets it" and one who is trying to "get them".  Now, I "get it!.  This is the best feeling there is, nothing else comes close! Minke, Sexy Islander   Once you've learned the basics, you'll instinctively sense and immediately tap into the special “chemisty” because you'll "KNOW" what they want before they ask for it.  This will make men or women feel that you understand them on a level NO ONE does -- or ever has.  It completely puts them at ease around you -- and when they are with you no one else exists.   Today can be the start of a powerful presence that is relaxed, unafraid, sexually confident and fascinating all at the same time!   There is a seductive side of you that you right now don't even know you have in you!  The "revelation" may surprise you, and you'll even be more surprised at just how fast men and women start noticing and gravitating towards you, and most of the time they even don't know why.   Before reading this book, I was not very comfortable with my sexual self and had very little sexual self-worth.  I had so many invisible conditions from my childhood and upbringing that made it difficult for me to approach men and be at ease with them.  I wanted to meet men, but it was hard approaching them because I always feared that they'd think of me as a slut, and I didn't get approached by men at all.  I think I censored yourself a lot. Now my sexual energy is much simpler, much more playful, less ashamed of itself, more confident. Each time I read the e-Book I am awakened to more of the new me -- sexy, seductive and very comfortable in my skin.  I knew all this things in theory but the external affirmation gave me the courage I needed to go after what I want. I have a great time! I find it easier to approach men and talk to them.  They are very attracted to me and want to talk to me --one particular one really turns me on..;-) If anyone is looking for ways to transform romantic ideas into soul-vibrations, this book is invaluable. -- Karen Cook, Managing Consultant, DREICO   This isn't hard at all...   If you are serious about truly maximizing THE SEXUAL POWER ALREADY INSIDE OF YOU, then you'll find my e-Book an invaluable tool for doing just that. This is probably the ONLY book you'll ever find on cultivating an aura or presence that seduces without you doing anything that looks like you are trying to seduce!   That's sexy. And that my friends, is very, very so seductive indeed!!   I encourage you to break out of your “box” and seek to be extraordinary.   Transform yourself into “the Natural Seducer” you’ve always wanted to be!   Within hours you can be communicating with sexual confidence and making meaningful connections with the opposite sex.  And this time, YOU (and not them) are the one doing the picking and choosing -- effortlessly!