There are some people who have the right looks,
clothes, moves, presence and personal magnetism but lack that energy
that provides the sexual spark. They have great looks, all the money and
all the personal charisma in the world but all you want to do is sleep
with their looks, money and power or ability to influence others but not with
the person – if you could separate them from their looks, money or
persuasive power.
Despite all the hype about charisma there is a big difference between a
man or woman who radiates personal charisma and one who radiates sexual
charisma.
People with charisma, magnetism or the “It Factor” have three things in
common:
1. They have a very strong, unique and interesting identity that is
easily conveyed to other people with little explanation. They walk into
a room and you suddenly feel that you are in the presence of someone
different.
2. They are able to communicate their unique identity in ways that
others understand and appreciate it. They have excellent social skills
that enable them express themselves and as a result are seen as icons or
symbols of something.
3. They make other people feel good about themselves and this makes
people want to be around them.
But that is where the similarities stop. While most personally magnetic
people may go ahead to become “popular” (appear on TV, lead crowds, have
lots of friends etc) people with sexual charisma are not necessarily
popular, or persuasively influential.
Sexually charismatic people have a different kind of air or confidence
about them that makes the opposite sex want to connect with them
romantically and sexually. They communicate that “I am confident as a
sexual being” and also communicate “I want to be sexual with you” in
ways that inspire a deep primal reaction and generate a sort of "buzz"
of sexual energy inside of the opposite sex. This is what makes them
sexually charismatic!
Their particular brand of hypnotic quality makes the opposite sex
enthusiastically seek them out, want to interact with them and want to
sleep with them even without the great looks, money or influence. Their
ability to be intellectually stimulating one time, tender and
affectionate another time, and playful and passionate another time stirs
intense emotions and desires, and makes the opposite sex feel special,
interesting, fascinating and connected to them a unique primal way.
If you have the dynamic personal charisma and best communication skills
but to the opposite sex you only come across as “nice’ or “good friend”
“fun to hang out with” or “social contact” but someone not thought of in
a sexual way - “fit for the bedroom” or “want to marry” then you should
consider upping your sexual charisma. Personal magnetism is just not
enough.
Chapter 6 of this book -
The SEXth Sense - You Can’t Fake It shows you how to
sexually charge yourself with the swish and swagger of Eros and exude
that sexual magnetism that the opposite sex find irresistible.
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