Playing Hard
To-Get The Love Way - Strategy #6
It’s
true that men and women are naturally attracted to
mysterious and elusive people; they want to feel like they
found a hidden treasure. But mysterious and elusive doesn’t
mean become inaccessible --do not answer the phone, stand
them up, pretend you are busy and all that stuff. If you
disappear he or she has no body to chase.
Most people who play these kind of coy games end up sitting
by the phone listening to the ring, ring... ring...ring...
all the while wondering whether thy should pick up the phone
or not. It’s immature and emotionally unhealthy to mess with
your own emotions.
Allow the other person to access your already-busy life and
let him or her be able to contact you, but go on with your
own life as you normally would. Don’t change your whole
lifestyle for someone else, and please don’t pretend to have
a life just to get him or her to chase you. The only person
who’ll get hurt is you because you are the only one who
knows what you are doing. The other person might actually
think you are too busy that’s why you don’t pick up the
phone.
Get a real life, a career, a hobby, volunteer or do
something for someone else, go see a movie, make plans for a
guys’ or girls’ night out -- just make sure it doesn’t
involve anyone’s dates. If he or she doesn’t call, your day
or time was not wasted because you were not sitting waiting.
When your life is not programmed around his or her schedule
you can afford not to sound too eager or desperate when he
or she says. “I’ll call you”. Instead of saying, “OK, I’ll
wait for your call”; you can comfortably say “I’ll speak to
you soon."
And when he or she calls, whenever, you’ll have real plans.
You can then invite him or her into your interesting life by
suggesting things to do that you both enjoy.
For example, he or she may suggest that you get together the
same evening you have hockey/dance class, instead of
hurriedly canceling your hockey game or evening class, you
can say, “I have a hockey game/dance class on Tuesday, do
you want to come to the game/class?" If he or she says, “No,
Thursday is not good for me”, and doesn’t suggest another
day or time, you can leave the ball in his or her court by
saying “If you change your mind about Thursday evening, you
know where to find me".
If he or she suggests another day or time and you have
nothing lined up, the two of you can go ahead and have a
great time. If you have something else lined up, you can
say, "Hmmm, Friday is not good for me either, how about
Saturday afternoon. I am volunteering at the Sick Children's
Hospital until 2.00. p.m. You can join me or we can meet up
at say, 3.00. p.m."
This sends the message that your life is full and exciting
and he or she is welcome to share it with you, if he or she
wants to. If not, life goes on.
The fact is, if you have a lot of exciting things going on
in your life people will want to become part of it. And when
you're actually enjoying your life, it’s not game playing
because you're not pretending to be busy to try to mess with
his or her mind.
A little bit of mystery, challenge and "out of reach" every
now and then can inspire him or her not to become complacent
or take you for granted.
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