If He/She Is
Playing Impossible To Get – Try A Different Approach...
A
little challenge can add some spark to any relationship. As
children we hated playing hide-and-seek with those who hid
in plain sight and as adults we quickly lose interest when
there is no challenge, but trying to "play hard to get" when
you don't know what you are doing is like playing on sinking
sand.
The people I know who "play hard to get" and follow all
kinds of rules about when you're supposed to call after a
first date, when you are supposed to say I love you etc. are
normally the least happy and seem to be the ones who have
the most trouble finding good people and having lasting
relationships because they are so focused on the "HARD" and
not on the "PLAY". But so are people who chase after people
who are playing impossible to get. They too are so focused
on the "HARD" and not on the "PLAY".
If you are chasing someone and it looks more like he or she
is playing impossible to get, here are some
tried-and-found-to-be-very-effective positive actions that
you can take:
1. Go the way of least resistance – When resistance
is the focus, it becomes even more powerful. So stop chasing
him/her. If you chase a man or woman, he/she will usually
run. If your intention is just to chase and not “catch” him
or her, then keep chasing. But if you intention is to
finally have this person in your loving arms, there is no
point in chasing after him/her only for him/her to keep
running. If the person is really into you and he/she
realizes nobody is chasing after him/her, he/she will stop
running and wait to be caught or start the chasing
themselves.
I know stopping chasing is hard, because when things are not
going the way you’d like them to go, it's easy to panic or
want to act in some way to “force” it to happen. Many of us
spin our wheels mentally, trying to force an outcome. But
the beauty of the law of attraction is that we don’t have to
make things happen, we simply allow them to happen. So let
go off the “how” and “when” and simply relax and allow the
attraction process to unfold exactly as it will.
2. Inspire attraction not impose it - Attraction is
much less concerned with breaking down resistance as it is
with producing good feelings, touching deeper emotions and
creating a shared bond (sense of kinship). Whatever the
other person believes to be a “barrier’ to having a
relationship with you, he/she likely has reasons that make
sense, at least to him/her. Trying to dismiss, shoot down or
override his/her reasons only creates more tension and more
resistance. Your explaining, arguing and convincing will not
work because you are using logical solutions to an emotional
need. People don't fall in love for logical reasons. They
fall in love because of the emotions and then justify their
decision logically.
Rather than trying to “break down” their resistance, you’ll
achieve more and faster by listening to his/her thoughts
(words) and emotions (feelings). Their words and behaviours
will often reveal the "emotional" information you need to
move forward.
3. Just enjoy them – It can be hard to enjoy the
other person when he or she is not responding the way you
want him/her to be responding. But the more you appreciate
whatever degree of attraction there is between the two of
you (right –now-as-it-is), the more easily things seem to
flow and the more attraction you are likely to create.
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