Playing Hard To Get - How To Make
Him/Her Want To Fall In Love...
Many men and women in an attempt to create that sense of mystery,
unfamiliarity, and the thrill of the chase end up becoming too elusive
(playing impossible to get) that the other person assumes they’re not
interested or the other person after a while gets tired, gives up and
moves on.
The whole point of “playing hard to get" is to demonstrate your VALUE to
others and you can’t do that by being too available (clingy, needy or
eager to please) nor by simply making yourself unavailable (saying "no"
all the time or making yourself too scarce) or even by being overly
aggressive ( being manipulative, demanding or controlling). You
demonstrate VALUE by creating a sense of exclusiveness (exceptional and
extraordinary).
Creating that sense of “exclusiveness" requires:
1) A wise and intelligent awareness about what you are doing
Look at it this way—you’re the owner of a luxurious brand who wants to
confer an image of superior quality to a buyer. You are not going to
achieve this by using “open house," (I’m desperate, I will take anyone)
or “permanently out of stock" (don’t take calls, cancel dates, try to
make him or her jealous etc) methods. You confer an image of superior
quality by a good understanding of yourself first and foremost.
Self-awareness is the key. I cannot stress this enough. Self-awareness
especially awareness of your sexual imprint (why you are attracted to
certain people and not others, why you behave the way you behave, why
you fear what you fear, why you believe what you believe and do what you
do etc) will enable you direct your energy in positive ways, make the
right decisions and maintain balance and moderation.
2) Knowledge of what appeals to a particular man or woman
Each and everyone of us has a uniquely personalized set of things that
naturally attract or repel us sexually and erotically. How do you figure
out what attracts or repels a particular man or woman? One, by asking
questions... lots of them. Ask questions with the intention of finding
out what makes him or her tick - his or her own sexual imprint. And two,
by doing things that make him or her feel that you truly and genuinely
understand him or her as a unique individual. When you tap into the
deepest and sometimes most forbidden desires, fantasies, and passions of
a person, it is possible to spend just five minutes with him or her and
create such strong attraction that he or she later on, on their own,
recalls the experience with good feelings about seeing and being with
you again. It's this "good feelings" that fuel the chase.
3) Ability to make someone feel special without seeming too needy or
eager to please
If somebody is going to chase you, they want to know with some degree of
certainty that you are worth the chase. There’s nothing that is a bigger
turnoff for both men and women than someone who is predictable, not much
of a challenge, too rigid or controlling, desperate or too eager to
please, incurably negative and downright boring. The person must feel
that you’re worth his or her time and energy and what he or she is
chasing is not something he or she can easily get on the street corner
but rather something offered to only a “privileged" few. Men and women
want to feel that you're valuable and only those who deserve it will
earn you as a reward. It’s kind of like a “members only" exclusive club
where the person being allowed in feels “they must be special". When you
make someone feel special, they in return will feel you are also
special.
4) Capacity to impact on someone's life so much that they are positively
transformed as a result of knowing you
Really savvy and skilled brand creators take “exclusivity" one step
further. They just don’t stop at “by invitation only" phase, but instead
create an entire lifestyle. That is, they challenge a man or woman
pursing them to become more of themselves and do more than they’d dared
to do before. If your words, actions, and behaviours can actually make
the person experience a very strong state of arousal, excitement or deep
sense of peace creating strong memories those memories will be added to
the person’s sexual imprint and so will you - forever.
Playing hard to get done the right way can be the most powerful form of
seduction there is. Especially if seduction stems from a particular way
of being itself.
And we all have the ability to craft transcendent experiences that can
make our dates, lovers, and spouses feel they are flirting (literally!)
with the unpredictable and the unknown in a most intense, agreeable,
pleasing, charming, endearing, enticing, enlivening, and reality
altering way.
Who wouldn’t want to spend eternity with someone like that?
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