You may be one
of those people who when you see an attractive man or woman,
you instantly and urgently feel so attracted to him or her
that sometimes in your "disorganized state' you do something
that sabotages your efforts to make a good first impression.
Or you may be one of those people who when with a sexual
partner rushes headlong into genital touching and sexual
penetration either because you have little understanding of
how your body works or are afraid that if you do not do it
soon enough you'll lose your staying power. Hard, fast,
rushed sexual attraction or sexual intercourse destroys the
passion and possibility of a strong connection developing
naturally.
Either case, you
are suffering from the backlash of "sexual messages"
imprinted in your sexual programming. This default sexual
programming is what prevents you from fully and effectively
channeling your awesome sexual energy to extol the glories
of sexual attraction and pleasure.
When you are not
programmed to express yourself as a sexual being (in a
healthy way) you stifle the inward movement of sexual energy
and never fully allow your sexual energy to flow and fill
the void between you and the opposite sex. You never allow
your sexual energy to empower your actions and connect with
the opposite sex at a very primal level.
Making full use
of your sexual-creative energies available to you begins
with the active conscious broadcasting of your sexual
energy.
The art of
seduction when done the right way (slow, gentle and relaxed)
is a powerful space for you to broaden and explore the use
of your sexual energy. When used as a way of broadcasting
sexual energy, the art of seduction teaches you how to
tune-in and respond to the other person's sexual energy. You
can in effect request another person to take you into the
very centre of themselves and there play with you for hours.
When this degree of connection is established, seduction
stops being a technique, routine or act and instead becomes
one flow of sexual energies.
Some people are
innately aware of this powerful way of attracting the
opposite sex while others are aware somewhere within their
inner wisdom but quite often fear, doubt, shame and other
insecurities step in and most people will hold back and lose
the critical moment.
This book
will help you learn how to use this wisdom to attract the
sexual energies of the men and women you want to attract.