What Works Best – Technique Or Character?
Far too much game-playing
goes on in the seduction world, and many men (and woman) are
quickly discovering that generic tricks and routines to lure
the opposite sex don’t’ bring any real gratification other
than the occasional mechanical bonk...
But did you know that people in other parts of the word do
things differently. The greatest seducers are not so much
revered for technical excellence, but for the character they
put into the game. The seducer is not bound to a schematic
designed plan but instead intention and distinctiveness
precedes every move. Intention and distinctiveness allows
the seducer to be open minded, take it all in and put him or
herself in the position of really living the seduction
experience and not just performing it.
A more profound dance of seduction comes into being or
existence, and it becomes more than just seducer seducing
seducee, it becomes something that generates mutual,
tension, suspense, arousal, pleasure… This something
whatever you want to call it (chemistry, attraction, love)
adds reciprocity to the game, and takes it beyond playing
against to playing together, which is the true meaning of
the art of seduction.
As in life, distinctiveness in seduction is the starting
point. Adding your own distinctiveness, your own unique
personal style, your own passion and your own spirit to the
experience can set you apart in an irresistibly attractive
manner
The following are a few ideas for extending the “ordinary”
to “extra-ordinary” - and that I warmly recommend.
1. You must first get in touch with your own innate
seductiveness and allow yourself to be seduced by your own
self in order to be able to seduce another person. If you
take time to know what you are feeling when you are seducing
a man or woman that is "How you feel about yourself when
you're with a particular person," NOT "How you feel about
him or her?" your seduction will be smoother and more
memorable.
2. Elicit complex combinations of emotions and thoughts that
allow the person to undergo an emotional change associated
with the experience – he or she will always associate the
intense emotion with you.
3. Make him or her feel special by making the experience different from
anything he or she has ever known - and you will charm him/her
for hours.
4. Stretch out the moment - even if you know where you want
to go, don’t rush the moment. Always keep in mind that
present moment hovers between becoming the past and
progressing into the future.
You may be holding back what the opposite sex really want
and find irresistible. Your unique individual energy
(anything from having unusual ideas, tone of voice,
way of looking, way of walking, way of talking, how you eat, how you move
your body in dance etc-) can become powerfully seductive if you can
add your own distinctiveness, your own unique
personal style and extend it beyond “ordinary” to
“extra-ordinary”!
This whole book is all about developing inner sexual self confidence and communicating
your
own unique personal style
in ways that draw the
opposite sex -- and others to you.
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