Hands
down, the eyes have it – they begin it, they make it happen and they
finish it.
Eye contact is an important part of
the mating ritual. But there is more to eye contact and sexual
attraction than dilating pupils, how many times you exchange glances and
how long you can keep eye contact. Many Dating Coaches and Seduction
“Experts” hardly ever even mention it. You are simply told “don't make a
good eye contact and all is lost” and for the last thousand times you've
tried to make “good” eye contact, caught a few eyes and held some of
them in mutual gazing but that’s just it – eye contact. No sparks and no
“It’s you I want.”
Well, honey, I hate to be the one to be the bearer of bad news, but
merely pointing hauntingly vacant and dull eyes towards a man or woman
thinking that if you gaze hard enough and long enough, something will
happen is a waste of a lot of time.
The eyes are the most powerful single carrier of sexual energy. When
eyes meet, two sexual energies come into contact. Whether sparks fly or
not depends on the amount of sexual energy each one is generating at
that particular moment in time.
When a man or woman looks into your eyes and he or she sees nothing in
there, it doesn’t matter how long you focus your eyes into theirs. If
they initially liked your general physical appearance, they may return
eye contact just to see if they can read more from your eyes and if they
still find nothing there, they just look elsewhere and avoid further eye
contact. There is still chance that you will be attracted to each other
but for very different reasons – and not happy ones either.
But when a man or woman looks into your eyes and your sexual energy is
coming at them hard and strong, sparks fly. The mistake a lot of men and
women make - mostly because they are unaware of how sexual energy works
– is to think: “Oh! We made eye contact, now we’re an item!” Mistake!
Big Mistake!
Without working to fan the flame,
that little spark can easily be put out instantly. The secret is
to fan that spark into a fiercely burning fire using the eyes to speak
on your behalf.
The eyes have a body language all on their own. They have a very subtle
form of speaking that is hard to define, but you know it when you see
eyes that “speak”: they narrow, deepen, greet, adore, invite, suggest,
implore, insist, caress, propose and promise. They also glow with
knowledge, twinkle mischievously and play with sexual desire. All
without you even opening your mouth and without a single word exchanged
between the two of you.
Nothing will improve your dating prospects more than fluency in eye
language. I encourage you to go out there and let your eyes do the
speaking! It’ll take sometime getting used to it but eventually you will
feel yourself starting to really “connect” with others at a very deep
level. If you are not sure of where to even begin, I discuss how to use
the eyes to converse fluently a lot more in the E-Book including how to
use the eyebrows to give vividness and energy - adding intensity and
depth to the attraction!
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