Playing Hard To Get - How To Make
Him/Her Want To Chase You...
The two biggest mistakes men and women make with playing hard to
get is to 1) Play hard-to-get even when they don't yet know if the other
person is interested at all; 2) Play much too hard to get that the other
person thinks you are “not interested”.
If you are playing hard to get and no one is chasing you, that is not
playing hard to get, that is lying to yourself. Before you start playing
hard to get you must first make the sure the other person wants to play,
and is interested in the chase. You must first give him or her reason to
want to chase you.
In the culture I was raised in, this is called: "the delicate art of
arranging to be caught". It is a courtship ritual that our ancestors
discovered watching the courtship behaviour of other wild animals and
fine tuned it for their own use. This ritual is still part of selfishly
guarded rituals and esoteric arts.
The whole strategy is to give the other person the thrill of a chase
when in actual fact you are the one who arranged to be caught. I’ll just
reveal one secret of the delicate art of arranging to be caught.
You’ve probably heard that it’s always best to “leave something to the
imagination.” There is some sense in this in as far titillating and
perhaps some extra provocation is concerned, but this is not the best
way of arranging to be caught especially when the little that is
revealed, shown or exposed does nothing to the imagination except to ask
“why?” or “what for?” Even beautiful eyes, a sweet voice or interesting
story have away of putting one off (and in some cases even distinctly
revolting) if what is presented to the eyes has no apparent or sincere
hint of fun and enjoyment, excitement and adventure or attraction and
arousal.
The other person should not have to guess about anything. Most people
are unable to accurately read other peoples’ body language let alone
their minds. Take nothing for granted. Leave nothing to guesswork. I am
not suggesting that we all wear revealing clothing, eyeball or ogle at
every hot man or woman, flash breasts or grab crotches à la Michael
Jackson; this is not “leaving nothing to the imagination”, it’s bad
taste and a sign of under developed sexual and social skills.
Leaving nothing to the imagination basically means that you build up
enough intrigue and mystery (with every lingering look, every
expression, every body move you make etc) to make the person wonder what
makes you tick and what's going on in your "sexy" head. The person is
excited, stimulated and aroused by their own imagination. Their own
imagination feeds the thrill for the chase.
You do not really have to do much but relax and wait to be caught. There
is no need for any “seduction techniques”, no need to act like you’re
not as excited, no need to wait as long as you can before you call after
a first date and no need to pretend to be busy etc. In fact you can call
him/her everyday or go out every evening just to feed more into his/her
imagination. Nothing is more powerfully seductive than a person’s own
imagination.
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